Sexy in the City

We despise them, we loathe them, we love them, we hate them, were amazed by them and we want revenge on them. Yes I'm talking of a game between sexes which is becoming just as much about women as it is about men.
The game? Cheating!
What makes a cheater? Is it right to have a passionate love affair? Can a cheater make a relationship stronger?
It often makes you wonder, when did cheating more about love and less about sex. For at least half of everybody who cheats claims 'but I fell in love', and perhaps some of them did.
Sex is everywhere. Every club you walk into. Every corner you turn. For now every innocent drink you buy for someone, the game is raised, and nobody even cares 'if you are already spoken for?'.
If you think about it, there's a significant difference between one night stands and a full blown love affair outside of your committed relationship. On all levels its hard to forgive if they continue to go back for more.
I've had the unfortunate experience of being hurt in this way myself. But lucky for me it's always a deal breaker. If you cheat, you get out. That's the way I see it, but for those in real long term relationships, for those engaged or even more so, for those married and with children, theres a lot more at stake, and a hell of a lot more to lose.

A question I have in the back of my mind is, can cheating make a relationship stronger? Could it make you sit down and re-evaluate the relationship and find out whats going wrong, whats missing, and where it can go from here. Perhaps it doesn't always mean over, maybe it means stronger?
However in some shape or form, a hurt lover always wants revenge. Either that or they believe karma comes back around. Because in this world nobody gets nothing for free.

Men, Women, Lovers, Partners, Husbands, Wives, Children, Brothers, Sisters, Parents are so often caught in webs of lies which threaten to blow apart lives.
The next time you cheat, dont think about getting your rocks off. Think about the heartbreak your causing at that exact moment you slip between the sheets.